“You’re going to have a hard time in life if you let every little mistake bother you… Life is good. Enjoy it.”
– M.O. Walsh, My Sunshine Away
I just saw this quote and it gave me a sudden inspiration to write about something.
Has anyone labelled you as the “crazy girlfriend” or you consider yourself to be a crazy girlfriend? Now look, I guess I am a little crazy but half of my crazy antics are just to spice the relationship up (lol see what I mean?)
I’ve learned that letting things happen is far more enjoyable than trying to control every aspect.
Being crazy is all I know and for many years I have associated myself with men who have damaged me. I don’t know how to act or tone myself down, but what I do know now that if my antics didn’t work for my past relationships, it certainly wouldn’t work for this one.
Like chill girlfriend, he chose you for a reason, so why the unnecessary drama?
My message to you girls and to myself is to let that man live, he’s with you because he said he wants to and there’s nothing else to it. Like yes, it would be so great if he didn’t like her photo or associated himself with other girls, but tough! He’s human too, and he is going to make mistakes, but mistakes do not define the person – let them learn from it and grow from it.
Again, he chose you, which means:
- Be confident in yourself.
- Love yourself.
- Do things that make you happy.
- Make sure you have your own independent thing going on such as work or hobbies.
- Make sure that your man is not the ONLY thing you know.
- Communicate with him.
Now listen, if your man is immature and is literally a basic f boy, then yes please drop him. I wasted 4-5 years with the wrong men, but I am so grateful for all the lessons I have learned because this has made me grown into a more mature person. Love will find you when you’re ready, so please don’t force yourself or feel pressured by the people around you because you won’t believe how blessed I feel today.
Let things happen gurl 🙂